Stages of Life | Sexual Dysfunction | Couples | How to use

Stages of Life (What Women Should Know):
Throughout adulthood women experience many stages of life which play a key role in their sexual health and intimacy. From budding young women to the wisdom of maturity, women experience changes in our bodies that affect their physical and emotional well-being which, in turn, affects our sex drive.

Menstrual Cycle:
The menstrual cycle is a very complex 28 day cycle in which the female body experiences creating all sorts of changes throughout the month including physical, hormonal and emotional. Day 1 is when bleeding starts and the hormones estrogen and progesterone are not very high. Estrogen levels mount and peak at Day 14 when ovulation occurs, give or take 2 days during which time women may experience a feeling of wetness or lubrication. During other times of the month a woman may not feel this same sensation leaving her less wet or lubricated. Using additional lubrication during these times can be helpful. Some women may experience premenstrual syndrome (PMS) during their menstrual cycle. PMS may occur anytime two weeks preceding your period. This may include anxiety, mood swing, vaginal itching, weight gain, irritability to name a few. All of which could affect your sexual drive.

Birth Control:
Birth control is important, but it may decrease your sex drive. There are many types of birth control on the market. Ask your doctor to help you find the birth control that is best for you.

Child Birth/Postpartum:
After you experience child birth you may go through a period of time that you are not interested in sex. Your husband is also affected by childbirth and you may find that he has a decrease in sex drive too. This is temporary, so be patient with each other, communicate and work together as a team to insure you are both able to enjoy each other sexually. Again, if you find it lasting for a long period of time consult your doctor.

Menopause:
At menopause, a woman’s body stops producing estrogen and a common complaint is vaginal dryness. In addition, the vaginal tissue becomes thinner and less elastic, making sex less pleasurable. The use of a personal lubricant at this point in life is very important to help increase lubrication during intercourse.

Sexual Dysfunction (Symptoms & Solutions):
Many women experience loss sex drive at various times in their lives. This lack of interest in sex may be the result of various life situations from stress and depression to FSD (Female Sexual Dysfunction). There are many ways to rejuvenate your interest in intimacy through self exploration and your body image to over the counter medications and doctor prescribed treatments such as hormone replacement.

Stress:
Life brings us much stress, and as we mature we gain more responsibility and along with the responsibility we inevitably increase our stress. Stress can affect us emotionally, physically, and it can be our worst enemy in the bedroom! You want to make sex your stress reliever! It is a great way to relax, unwind and exercise. These are all ways to relieve stress. Take advantage of what sex has to offer!

Self Image:
As we move through life our bodies change. As you we are very driven by our external looks and want to always be in the best physical shape possible. As we mature, our bodies change. No need to work hard to stay fit and spend much more time keeping up our appearances.

Couples (Sex is a Team Sport):
Let’s face it, intercourse is a team sport. Most men have played team sports some time in their lives. They know how to call out plays, intercept when necessary and score! Women, on the other hand, may not have had the same opportunities to learn these skills therefore, they need to teach themselves. If you want to have great sex, you need to be a team player!

Play:
Men are good at asking for what they want. Women may not always take this initiative. Unfortunately, it can get very frustrating to satisfy someone via mental telepathy! Tell him what you need so he can make it happen.

Interception:
Maybe you don’t know what you need or want. If it is not feeling right, step in and help out. Try different techniques and help out until you come up with one or more that works for you. You will both be happier if you are both being satisfied.

Score:
Scoring is the most important part of the game for men. Work together to make sure you are both scoring in every game or you may start to feel neglected. If scoring is not your number one goal, ask for what you want and then give him what you know he wants.

How to Use (Personal Care Products):
California Fantasies offers female friendly, personal care products to help you achieve the sexual intimacy you are looking for. From water-based lubricant to lubricating shrink creams, you will find our products will help you feel like a women!

Krysstal Water-based lubricant:
KRYSSTAL Water Based Lubricant is formulated by the highest standards. KRYSSTAL is a clear, long lasting, silky, non-sticky and greaseless lubricant. Containing Vitamin-E and Aloe, KRYSSTAL is great for sensitive skin and will not harm latex.

Titannium Silicone Lubricant:
Silkier-than-silk, TITANNIUM is 100% silicone manufactured in the USA. This premium lubricant is super silky, clear, odorless, latex friendly and works great under water!

Razzels Flavored Warming Lubricants:
Warm each other with these yummy RAZZELS FLAVORED, WARMING LUBRICANTS. Apply, rub blow and dazzle your partner into ecstasy. RAZZELS is great for warming up foreplay, oral sex and intercourse.

Snuggels Lubricating Shrink Creams:
Kissable Snuggels is a cream lubricant with Alum. Alum helps create a tightening sensation of the skin around the vaginal area. Many women develop vaginal elasticity issues due to childbirth or aging, which in turn, can decrease sensitivity, reduce the ability to achieve orgasms and create a loss of bladder control. In addition to tightening the vaginal area, Snuggels Creams may be used with all Doctor recommended kegel products and exercises.

Ice Crème Intimate Lubricating Creams:
For decades, liquid lubricants have become increasingly popular and beneficial to enhancing romance and pleasure for couples prior to and during intercourse however, using a liquid lubricant can be difficult. These liquids are runny, messy and hard to control. After using a liquid lubricant your skin may feel sticky and you may feel the need to wash it off.

Essence of Pearl Massage Creams:
Indulge in the richness of ESSENCE OF PEARL exclusively formulated MASSAGE CREAMS. These lightly scented massage creams will put you into the mood, while pampering your skin. Let your body indulge with the specially formulated massage creams to relax your body and clear your mind.